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		<title>By: adamf</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56560</link>
		<dc:creator>adamf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 01:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brandon - I suspected that. :)

If Kurtz is &quot;referencing&quot; others&#039; research to satisfy his own political bent, then obviously he cannot be relied upon as a source for scientific knowledge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brandon &#8211; I suspected that. :)</p>
<p>If Kurtz is &#8220;referencing&#8221; others&#8217; research to satisfy his own political bent, then obviously he cannot be relied upon as a source for scientific knowledge.</p>
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		<title>By: brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>By the way Adam, I was being tongue in cheek about him being an excellent researcher.  All I found were articles where he references surveys and other people&#039;s work.  I don&#039;t know that he actually does any research himself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By the way Adam, I was being tongue in cheek about him being an excellent researcher.  All I found were articles where he references surveys and other people&#8217;s work.  I don&#8217;t know that he actually does any research himself.</p>
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		<title>By: brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:35:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeff,
I understand your point about revelation.  If someone opposes gay marriage because the church (or God) told them to, I can understand their argument (at least they&#039;re being honest).  But, it seems to me that many religious people are seeking to find a rational justification to support their stand against gay marriage (which is actually motivated by religion).  I was simply pointing out that while LDS feel they are fighting gay marriage, the other people that are fighting with them are actually fighting polygamy and polyamory as the worst enemies.  I do think it is ironic that the LDS fear gay marriage, while the others fighting with them fear polygamy most of all.  In other posts I have said I feel the LDS should endorse the policy of government getting out of the business of defining relationships.  If LDS want to be polygs, that is their business.  If gays want to be married, that is their business.  I don&#039;t see any benefit to having government define marriage (gay, straight or poly).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeff,<br />
I understand your point about revelation.  If someone opposes gay marriage because the church (or God) told them to, I can understand their argument (at least they&#8217;re being honest).  But, it seems to me that many religious people are seeking to find a rational justification to support their stand against gay marriage (which is actually motivated by religion).  I was simply pointing out that while LDS feel they are fighting gay marriage, the other people that are fighting with them are actually fighting polygamy and polyamory as the worst enemies.  I do think it is ironic that the LDS fear gay marriage, while the others fighting with them fear polygamy most of all.  In other posts I have said I feel the LDS should endorse the policy of government getting out of the business of defining relationships.  If LDS want to be polygs, that is their business.  If gays want to be married, that is their business.  I don&#8217;t see any benefit to having government define marriage (gay, straight or poly).</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff T</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56499</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 18:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brandon,

It isn&#039;t ironic at all if you remember that the Church doesn&#039;t claim to base it&#039;s policies on &quot;scientific&quot; research, but prophetic revelation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brandon,</p>
<p>It isn&#8217;t ironic at all if you remember that the Church doesn&#8217;t claim to base it&#8217;s policies on &#8220;scientific&#8221; research, but prophetic revelation.</p>
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		<title>By: adamf</title>
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		<dc:creator>adamf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 14:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know if one can call what Kurtz does &quot;research&quot; although I am open to hearing more if anyone has any links etc. to reputable journals in which he has published this research we keep talking about.  I am quite interested in it, actually, in research surrounding gay parents.  In #14 Cameron claimed to me that there was &quot;evidence&quot; but he has yet to reply.

So, if anyone has any specific links (or just titles) to anything from a journal that Kurtz has published, I would love to see it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if one can call what Kurtz does &#8220;research&#8221; although I am open to hearing more if anyone has any links etc. to reputable journals in which he has published this research we keep talking about.  I am quite interested in it, actually, in research surrounding gay parents.  In #14 Cameron claimed to me that there was &#8220;evidence&#8221; but he has yet to reply.</p>
<p>So, if anyone has any specific links (or just titles) to anything from a journal that Kurtz has published, I would love to see it.</p>
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		<title>By: brandon</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56490</link>
		<dc:creator>brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Back to the topic at hand, I tried to follow up a little bit on the research of Stanley Kurtz as referenced by Reach Upward (#5).  I found it interesting that Kurtz seems to identify Polygamy as being the absolute greatest threat to marriage.  Much of his opposition to gay marriage seems to stem from his belief that gay marriage will lead to legalized polygamy and subsequentally, the end of civilization.  I therefore find it ironic that LDS are so opposed to gay marriage, when a respected researcher such as Stanley Kurtz believes that Polygamy (the celestial marriage, still enshrined in scripture and practiced spiritually) is a greater threat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back to the topic at hand, I tried to follow up a little bit on the research of Stanley Kurtz as referenced by Reach Upward (#5).  I found it interesting that Kurtz seems to identify Polygamy as being the absolute greatest threat to marriage.  Much of his opposition to gay marriage seems to stem from his belief that gay marriage will lead to legalized polygamy and subsequentally, the end of civilization.  I therefore find it ironic that LDS are so opposed to gay marriage, when a respected researcher such as Stanley Kurtz believes that Polygamy (the celestial marriage, still enshrined in scripture and practiced spiritually) is a greater threat.</p>
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		<title>By: brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Daniel,
I am trying to not take anything in life for granted.  I believe that if there is a God I will find him in my sincere attempts to find truth.  I have no idea what exists for us in the universe beyond this life.  I have tried to connect with God but have felt empty.  So this is my way of dealing with it.  I am determined to keep my heart and mind open to truth.  I will not reject things simply because they don&#039;t harmonize with my religious tradition.  If they are true, they are true and God will not punish me for believing truth.  If they are false, then I will ask God to have mercy on me considering his communication system (prayer?) failed to notify me of its falsehood.  I stand ready to hear his voice or &quot;feel&quot; his spirit.  But, in the meantime I will trust the mind, intellect and reason he has given me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Daniel,<br />
I am trying to not take anything in life for granted.  I believe that if there is a God I will find him in my sincere attempts to find truth.  I have no idea what exists for us in the universe beyond this life.  I have tried to connect with God but have felt empty.  So this is my way of dealing with it.  I am determined to keep my heart and mind open to truth.  I will not reject things simply because they don&#8217;t harmonize with my religious tradition.  If they are true, they are true and God will not punish me for believing truth.  If they are false, then I will ask God to have mercy on me considering his communication system (prayer?) failed to notify me of its falsehood.  I stand ready to hear his voice or &#8220;feel&#8221; his spirit.  But, in the meantime I will trust the mind, intellect and reason he has given me.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56424</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you, Brandon. An evidence-based worldview. That&#039;s quite refreshing around here. Usually they only ask for evidence when you disagree with them. If you agree, no evidence needed, intuition is fine.

Like you, I found that faith obscures vision. It gets you attached to ideas, and then you have to defend them, and then you&#039;re too invested in the idea to change if you need to. And if you think your ideas are from a god, then any contrary evidence must be Satan&#039;s deception. Blecch. Now I love it when someone shows me I&#039;m wrong, as long as they present the facts.

Keep it up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you, Brandon. An evidence-based worldview. That&#8217;s quite refreshing around here. Usually they only ask for evidence when you disagree with them. If you agree, no evidence needed, intuition is fine.</p>
<p>Like you, I found that faith obscures vision. It gets you attached to ideas, and then you have to defend them, and then you&#8217;re too invested in the idea to change if you need to. And if you think your ideas are from a god, then any contrary evidence must be Satan&#8217;s deception. Blecch. Now I love it when someone shows me I&#8217;m wrong, as long as they present the facts.</p>
<p>Keep it up.</p>
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		<title>By: Brandon</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56387</link>
		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 06:42:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not long ago, I was so convinced I knew the absolute truth about eternity, I would ignore reason and logic when they did not support what I already knew to be true.  More recently, I have been inclined to approach many problems from a new perspective.  My lack of faith has allowed me to evaluate issues without the prejudices which once clouded my vision.  I don&#039;t think I have the answers yet, and have not made up my mind about all the issues (this one included), but I no longer feel compelled to stick to the party line.  I feel free to explore and evaluate, knowing that I don&#039;t have a predetermined conclusion that I have to arrive at and support.  Maybe gay marriage is the end of the world.  I would just like a logical and observable reason to believe that position.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not long ago, I was so convinced I knew the absolute truth about eternity, I would ignore reason and logic when they did not support what I already knew to be true.  More recently, I have been inclined to approach many problems from a new perspective.  My lack of faith has allowed me to evaluate issues without the prejudices which once clouded my vision.  I don&#8217;t think I have the answers yet, and have not made up my mind about all the issues (this one included), but I no longer feel compelled to stick to the party line.  I feel free to explore and evaluate, knowing that I don&#8217;t have a predetermined conclusion that I have to arrive at and support.  Maybe gay marriage is the end of the world.  I would just like a logical and observable reason to believe that position.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 07:40:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re being generous, Brandon.

The fact that &#039;It doesn&#8217;t matter in which order these things occur&#039; suggests to me that at least one of these factors is irrelevant.

Pollution goes up with increased incidence of mustache wearing, left-handedness, tapioca consumption, and burning of lots of fossil fuels. It doesn&#039;t matter in what order these things occur.

I are a statistician!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re being generous, Brandon.</p>
<p>The fact that &#8216;It doesn&rsquo;t matter in which order these things occur&#8217; suggests to me that at least one of these factors is irrelevant.</p>
<p>Pollution goes up with increased incidence of mustache wearing, left-handedness, tapioca consumption, and burning of lots of fossil fuels. It doesn&#8217;t matter in what order these things occur.</p>
<p>I are a statistician!</p>
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		<title>By: Brandon</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-56351</link>
		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 23:15:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Stanley Kurtz has done a lot of research that shows definitively that heterosexual marriage rates drop off, and significant family and social decline occurs when three factors are in place: 1) unmarried heterosexual unions become generally accepted, 2) it becomes common for couples to have more than one child out of wedlock, and 3) gay marriage becomes legally acceptable. It doesn&#8217;t matter in which order these things occur.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I am not sure the studies I have seen do a good job of showing which of these cause the other or if maybe they are caused by some other factor.  Saying that all of those things happened in a country does not prove that one of them caused the others.  However, my money would be on increased cohabitation being the primary cause of decreased marriage rates.  I doubt that gay marriage has any significant impact on the behavior of hetero folks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Stanley Kurtz has done a lot of research that shows definitively that heterosexual marriage rates drop off, and significant family and social decline occurs when three factors are in place: 1) unmarried heterosexual unions become generally accepted, 2) it becomes common for couples to have more than one child out of wedlock, and 3) gay marriage becomes legally acceptable. It doesn&rsquo;t matter in which order these things occur.</p></blockquote>
<p>I am not sure the studies I have seen do a good job of showing which of these cause the other or if maybe they are caused by some other factor.  Saying that all of those things happened in a country does not prove that one of them caused the others.  However, my money would be on increased cohabitation being the primary cause of decreased marriage rates.  I doubt that gay marriage has any significant impact on the behavior of hetero folks.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 00:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Were you going to say that we &lt;i&gt;will&lt;/i&gt; see some wrath later eventually? Like after Jesus comes?

&#039;Cause wrath is a dish best served cold? 

Taste the cold wrath.

One time I had wrath, and I didn&#039;t know it was supposed to be served cold. I almost sent it back to get it warmed up until I realised.

No wait, that was gazpacho.

Still waiting... doot dee doo...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Were you going to say that we <i>will</i> see some wrath later eventually? Like after Jesus comes?</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause wrath is a dish best served cold? </p>
<p>Taste the cold wrath.</p>
<p>One time I had wrath, and I didn&#8217;t know it was supposed to be served cold. I almost sent it back to get it warmed up until I realised.</p>
<p>No wait, that was gazpacho.</p>
<p>Still waiting&#8230; doot dee doo&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Connor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Connor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 00:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So many ways to respond, yet so little desire...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So many ways to respond, yet so little desire&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-55328</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 23:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bring on the wrath!

Will it be the same wrath that Belgium&#039;s getting? Or Canada? Spain, perhaps? Is it the wrath where God sends you economic prosperity and a largely stable democratic process?

I&#039;m waiting for the wrath to begin.

Doop a doop a doop...

...still no wrath...

Did you know that Australians say it like &#039;wroth&#039;? I don&#039;t know why. 

Just making conversation.

...doop a doop...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bring on the wrath!</p>
<p>Will it be the same wrath that Belgium&#8217;s getting? Or Canada? Spain, perhaps? Is it the wrath where God sends you economic prosperity and a largely stable democratic process?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m waiting for the wrath to begin.</p>
<p>Doop a doop a doop&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;still no wrath&#8230;</p>
<p>Did you know that Australians say it like &#8216;wroth&#8217;? I don&#8217;t know why. </p>
<p>Just making conversation.</p>
<p>&#8230;doop a doop&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mark N.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark N.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 20:21:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The showdown is over, because &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sacbee.com/749/story/988613.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;State Supreme Court won&#039;t block start of same-sex marriages&lt;/a&gt;.

We&#039;ll see if the voters have the stomach to attempt to overturn something in November that will have been allowed since the prior June.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The showdown is over, because <a href="http://www.sacbee.com/749/story/988613.html" rel="nofollow">State Supreme Court won&#8217;t block start of same-sex marriages</a>.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll see if the voters have the stomach to attempt to overturn something in November that will have been allowed since the prior June.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff T</title>
		<link>http://www.connorboyack.com/blog/legal-jujitsu-in-california-same-sex-marriage-upheld#comment-55322</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 02:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If successful, perhaps this might postpone the impending wrath of God?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If successful, perhaps this might postpone the impending wrath of God?</p>
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		<title>By: Connor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Connor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 01:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just received an email update w/ the following:

&lt;blockquote&gt;The Alliance for Marriage Foundation today celebrated the efforts of California voters for successfully placing the California Marriage Amendment on the November ballot.

The state constitutional amendment would define marriage as a union &quot;between a man and a woman&quot; if successful, and would overturn the recent California Supreme Court decision legalizing &#8220;same-sex&#8221; marriage.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

So, the showdown is set for five months from now.  This will get interesting...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just received an email update w/ the following:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Alliance for Marriage Foundation today celebrated the efforts of California voters for successfully placing the California Marriage Amendment on the November ballot.</p>
<p>The state constitutional amendment would define marriage as a union &#8220;between a man and a woman&#8221; if successful, and would overturn the recent California Supreme Court decision legalizing &ldquo;same-sex&rdquo; marriage.</p></blockquote>
<p>So, the showdown is set for five months from now.  This will get interesting&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: adamf</title>
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		<dc:creator>adamf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 14:44:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great, Cameron, but where is the evidence?  Do you have a link or any studies or books?  I am (sincerely) interested.  

The info I have (Fatherneed, by Kyle Pruett, M.D. - in which he refers to some studies suggests that:  1-children of gay parents are not more likely to be gay themselves, 2-they may have a more difficult time being judged by their peers, 3-tend to develop a less prejudicial view of the world, 4-gay father place greater emphasis on verbal communication, 5-show more consistency in enforcing limits, 6-respond more reliably to the perceived needs of their children.  (Many of these points are from: Bigner, J., &amp; Jacobsen, R.B. (1989). &quot;The Value of Children to Gay and Heterosexual Fathers.&quot;

The point was also made in the book that we have a lot more to study.  For any study does not confirm truth, but rather points us in certain directions.

So, as I said, where is your evidence?  I would like to read it (again sincerely).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great, Cameron, but where is the evidence?  Do you have a link or any studies or books?  I am (sincerely) interested.  </p>
<p>The info I have (Fatherneed, by Kyle Pruett, M.D. &#8211; in which he refers to some studies suggests that:  1-children of gay parents are not more likely to be gay themselves, 2-they may have a more difficult time being judged by their peers, 3-tend to develop a less prejudicial view of the world, 4-gay father place greater emphasis on verbal communication, 5-show more consistency in enforcing limits, 6-respond more reliably to the perceived needs of their children.  (Many of these points are from: Bigner, J., &amp; Jacobsen, R.B. (1989). &#8220;The Value of Children to Gay and Heterosexual Fathers.&#8221;</p>
<p>The point was also made in the book that we have a lot more to study.  For any study does not confirm truth, but rather points us in certain directions.</p>
<p>So, as I said, where is your evidence?  I would like to read it (again sincerely).</p>
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		<title>By: Cameron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cameron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 13:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The evidence says &quot;mother and father&quot; not just &quot;two parents&quot;.  There&#039;s a big difference.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The evidence says &#8220;mother and father&#8221; not just &#8220;two parents&#8221;.  There&#8217;s a big difference.</p>
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		<title>By: adamf</title>
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		<dc:creator>adamf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 18:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Reach said: &quot;There is overwhelming evidence that children and society benefit most from being raised by a mother and a father. Hence, the state has an interest in providing special treatment to heterosexual marriage.&quot;

To the first sentence I agree.  It doesn&#039;t flow logically to the next, however.  While having two parents may be better than one, there is no evidence that those parents need be heterosexual.  If you do have said evidence, please share it.  What I have read on the matter in fact suggests that kids of homosexual parents do just fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reach said: &#8220;There is overwhelming evidence that children and society benefit most from being raised by a mother and a father. Hence, the state has an interest in providing special treatment to heterosexual marriage.&#8221;</p>
<p>To the first sentence I agree.  It doesn&#8217;t flow logically to the next, however.  While having two parents may be better than one, there is no evidence that those parents need be heterosexual.  If you do have said evidence, please share it.  What I have read on the matter in fact suggests that kids of homosexual parents do just fine.</p>
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