I saw that this morning on the Today show. Very sad. Our country is definitely not heading in a good direction.

I don’t know if the proportion of the population that is married is necessarily a good measure of whether or not the family is dissintegrating in America. There are many people who live in committed relationships and raise children in a family setting who don’t get married till later on. Some may not agree with the sequencing of these life events, but that doesn’t mean these people don’t enjoy a happy, healthy family life.

I wouldn’t call all of these unmarried parents non-commital. Many of them have chosen to start families with their partners, which is a definite commitment.

While starting a family outside of marriage may be at odds with a Latter-day Saint value system, many of these couples raise good, healthy children who become productive members of society and good citizens.

The structure of the American family might be changing, and I certainly understand the concerns this raises for conservatives, but I still don’t think “disintegrating” is the right word for the situation. While there may be disagreement about some values, I think that many unmarried parents, including homosexual couples, are genuinely devoted to each other and their children, and are raising good families.

I recognize that there are forces in society that threaten the family. But I think it’s also important to recognize that there are those whose family values don’t 100% line up with those of Latter-day Saints, but who are still devoted to their partners and families.

The problem is not their devotion one to another. I’m sure that many of them are very devoted…..but for how long?

The problem is that the degradation of our society will occur slowly, when the only time that we can truly see clearly how much it has degraded is when it is too late. I’m not conservative, but when it comes to family values and marriage, nothing is more important to the strength of our society than the family as God designed it.

Frankly, I am glad other people feel that parents should be married!!! I have had to keep that opinion to myself on too many occasions. Marriage is a committment, and i believe that children benefit greatly from having both parents in the home. We’ve become too accepting, I feel, of people who have children and aren’t committed enough to the other parent to be married. We see too often celebrities having children out of wedlock; it sets a bad example.

Chill, my good people.

The meaning of ‘the family’ has changed and evolved over time. The meaning of marriage, the status of the wife as either property or co-equal, the role of extended family members — all these things have fluctuated over time and are different in different cultures.

I suppose if you wish to worry about this issue, you may. But family structure will continue to evolve and change, just as it always has, long after we’re gone.