Hey yeh! That’s it! People put up lights so their neighbors won’t speak ill of them.

But I’m sure for some of those huge home displays, it is the vain goal of outdoing the others on the street.

I suppose that some Mormons feel it their duty to display lights on their homes, because SLC Temple Square does. But the Ogden Temple has no lights. I don’t think the Bountiful, Provo, Jordan River have lights either. It is church policy that no church meeting houses are to have lights.

I seem to remember seeing lights on the St. George Temple. Does anyone have knowledge about other Temples that do or do not have lights?

Where have I failed??? This from a son who was raised in a home where we faithfully put up over 40 boxes of Christmas decor with over 100 nativity sets . . . . .
Why? I love creating a magical month for my children that is different from the rest where we talk every day about Christ and we are focused on service to others and giving to others.
And yes, it’s a bit bonkers. And every year I get excited about it . . .
But the outdoor lights are truly a competitive field . . . it’s hilarious as we drive up and down analyzing . . . how dumb. But it’s part of the magic . . . .
We have so little magic left in our world. Everything is so literal and real and practical. We can indulge ourselves a bit in nonsensical creativity . . . even if it’s only displayed in commercial lights arranged in death-defying ways..

I don’t think it’s correct to say they have no meaningful purpose when its evident that they do—why else would people bother to put them up each year? :)

The lights (originally candles) on trees and homes are a reminder of the star. For me, its a symbol that points back to the original nativity.

A thing of beauty is a joy for ever:
Its loveliness increases; it will never
Pass into nothingness; but still will keep
A bower quiet for us, and a sleep
Full of sweet dreams, and health, and quiet breathing.
–John Keats

Can’t they just be pretty and, therefore, have value?

I hate the commercialization of Christmas, but I don’t think that lights really fit into that (except for the “keep up with the Joneses” attitude, but I don’t think that’s as pervasive as you make it sound). Lights are pretty, and they make me happy. No other reason is necessary.

Honestly, coming from the light-starved north (sitting in front of my ‘go-lite’ light box as I type this…), they brighten things up in the darkest time of year. That’s it, purely psychological. As the sun comes less and less, and we humans have progressed beyond campfires, we seek to illuminate the ever-darkening world around us.

How many more days until the solstice???

If any body has ever seen a five year old boy or girls face when he or she see the lights that people risk their necks to put up then you would know that it’s not about the reasoning behind it all, it’s about the joy. I have younger siblings and many many very young relatives that all enjoy the spectacular lights and the not so spectacular lights. I love to see the look on my grandfathers face when he sees a house with just plain white lights. I love to watch my little sister helping my mother and grandmother decorate the tree, even if it is a fake one. All of these are “GREAT” reasons to celibate Christmas with lights. Yes it is pretty ridicules that some neighborhoods can’t get off of their high horses and let people use the lights for the right reason but you’ll have that with humans. We are a selfish species for the most part. No, not the for most part. There are still many many very good people out there putting lights up just to share their joy… God bless every one and have a, joyfully light filled, marry Christmas. And yes, in my house The lights do represent the light of Christ, inside and out. Matthew 5:16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

:)

Connor, I’m with your Mom, kc, and most of the other commenters on this one.

Although I appreciate your pointing out that we shouldn’t be so dang competitive, judgmental, and over-the-top with ‘em (points well taken about anything!) my boys and I have been putting up Christmas lights for the last few days and really, really enjoying it for the “magic” and heartwarming reminder of all that we celebrate Christmas for.

(I’m reasonably sure that’s the rationale behind the lights at Temple Square and the Mesa Temple and places like that as well.)

Excuse me but this so called “crapola” is what puts smiles on childrens’ faces every year and what makes christmas fun!

Connor just so you know… The inside and outside of my house has christmas lights… On every night! Because I dont have lamps! haha

Are your lights made in China? I don’t think the Chinese even know what Christmas is. I think the Chinese only see the manufacture of Christmas lights as a way to make money. But I’ll bet the Power Companies love the lights – another money-maker. Christmas seems to be all about money………

This is much ado about nothing.

Honestly, Connor, if someone wants to risk life and limb to put on a show for their family and neighbors, let them. I don’t because I can’t stand heights. I’ll light up my tree because of TRADITION. I don’t light up my house because it’s DANGEROUS.

Some light up their house. Others don’t light up at all. I don’t begrudge either extreme.

If you don’t think it’s worth it, don’t do it. But don’t be guilty of what you accuse others of (sneering because of participation or lack thereof in a widespread tradition).

It’s just a stupid tradition. Most traditions ARE STUPID. But there is something innate in the human being that seeks out traditions and wants to carry them on. As long as there is no harm, traditions help define families, cultures, & nations. This is the benefit of all traditions, including Christmas lights.

Connor’s Mom, I love you.

I don’t often chime in on Connor’s blog, but I just can’t resist right now.

I first would like to point out that this post was written before we were dating.

The conclusion I’ve always had is that it’s totally okay to have traditions for no specific reason, when those things are FUN! Sometimes, that’s the very reason we do it.

In this specific case, lights are pretty. They’re special because we only do it once a year. They brighten the darkness of winter (this is especially important to me, being from AZ originally). They cheer the hearts of those that see them. Whether or not they represent something specific, they do represent Christmas. What Christmas means to you is something you establish for yourself.

I think (hope) Connor’s finally starting to see the light. (pun intended)

What? Connor has a mother AND a wife????
go figure.